Are broken hearts exclusive to a romantic relationship or can a broken heart occur in a platonic relationship as well? In a close friendship that spans years in which an incredible amount of time has been spent together is it not only possible but highly likely for a heart to feel tremendous pain not unlike that of a jilted lover?
When friendships becomes strained or hit a stormy time everything is magnified and scrutinzed. What may not be is mistaken for a slight and the hurt takes center stage. It can be very difficult to attempt to navigate around a once peaceful happy relationship now run amok. Emotions haunt and torment but often are better left unspoken in hopes that the damage can be kept to a minimum.
I am tired. I am hurt. My heart is breaking. I know you are hurting too. I am trying to keep from allowing every little thing to be a big thing. Its difficult to do. Some things are so loud they are screaming in my ears. I can't shut out the sounds.
Just do me a favor and be honest. I would rather be hurt by your honesty than be crushed by your attempts to not hurt me further.
*just another little piece*
2 comments:
how I felt when the friend betrayed me.
I know EACTLY what and how you feel....
they don't get it.... but... it does get better... really
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One instance I would not consider a betrayal in any way, shape or form. Life happens and things change. It makes me sad and it breaks my heart.
The other instance I just dont know what to think. I am pretty sure that for all intents and purposes, I have been unceremoniously dumped. This is killing me as well.
I really didn't think that I had anything left to break after the last BF. Boy was I wrong.
meh.
*hugs*
~ b
*and with every goodbye, we learn*
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